Monday, April 16, 2012

32 Months

4 letter words...go....

I was thinking about the things Milo and Lola have in common the other night. When Milo is peacefully resting, I see features of his sister in him. The face, the eyes and then a gentle kiss on his forehead reminds me of how blessed we are. Special children they are. Besides physically,they also both remind me of some other important 4 letter words...

LOVE
HOPE
PRAY

and the most important 4 letter words to us...

LOLA
MILO

The spare moments I have in the day, where I can allow my mind to wander always leads to Lola. I LOVE her. I HOPE one day we will meet again. I PRAY she is okay. It was so hard to walk away from the hospital 32 months ago, empty arms. Today we don't have the empty arms but the empty heart. That piece will always be with Lola. love*hope*pray

Friday, March 16, 2012

31 Months

I hear the rain beating against the windows. Actually that's all I hear. It is very still and silent at our house tonight. The rain at night I think is somewhat enjoyable, it is heavenly to sleep to. I often wonder if rain could be all the angels crying in heaven, they must miss us too...

Sometimes at night I lay awake wondering what life would be like if Lola was here, those are the nights you toss and turn and don't get much sleep, you still wonder where things went so wrong. Even though so much time has passed, the feelings don't and won't. I'm still sensitive about so many things with Lola. Our life is in many ways like a book. You really have to ask the questions or read the story to know about us, because there is so much more to us than a husband, wife, a darling son, Milo and a cute dog. That's what you see on the cover. On the inside their is an angel and her story created our life or what life is now without her. It's the little things like the stranger in the grocery store, asking is he your only child...the list goes on. The things that pierce your heart but you just smile and go on. Because that's life. That's our life. Not everyone will know our story. That's something you learn to accept as an angel mom.

I cherish the times when family and friends talk about Lola, "auntie" sara still tells me on the 16th she will remember and never forget. So Lola knows, she has a fan club here on earth...so this rain must be tears of joy. The rain is still tapping on the windows...


love you lola!!!

Thursday, February 16, 2012

30 Months...

Calling on Angels...Lola Grace...

Milo has a book about angels, he brings it to me everyday to read to him. Maybe he is fasinated by the pictures or maybe he likes all the stories of angels. The book says to call on angels when you need them, do you need help...just ask! Seems pretty simple.

Our Angel Lola List:

Be with Great Grandma as she starts chemo today.-I am taking it that they scheduled it on the 16th to be a good sign, an angel is with her today. The 16th is always a special day. We need a miracle.

Help Milo to feel better from his cold- he sure is happy despite the sniffles

Give us lots of encouragement and hope today- let's concquer some DREAMS

Thanks for the sunshine today...smiling down on us?

Protect all of our loved ones

That is just today's list...it is differemt everyday. That's why we have gaurdian angels and God to turn too. No problem too big or too small.

Jp saw 2 rainbows in one day. My mom found 2 pennies yesterday. Our favorite angel signs.

call on your angel.

Love you Lola!

Monday, January 16, 2012

29 Months

The holiday season is offically over. Decorations are taken down, put away in anticiaption of next year. Sometimes it is the getting "excited" over things that is the best part...like the countdown until a good vacation, the start of your favorite tv show or even a birthday. There is such a hype. I guess we anticipate the things we love most...

There was a lot of anticipation for us this month. Lola's story arrived on newstands over the Monterey Peninsula the week of Jan.9. The thought of thousands of people reading her story brings tears to my eyes. I have always said and will say it until the day I die, that keeping Lola's memory alive is one of the most important things in my life. Part of the reason I blog on the 16th of each month. A time to sit and reflect, a time for little Lola. It takes only a few minutes to read "pennies from heaven" but can teach you life lessons in those few paragraphs.

1. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff
2. Count your Blessings
3. Never stop dreaming
4. Love-LOVE-love
5. Cherish the time you have with your loved ones- family and friends are everything

I could keep going on and on with lessons Lola has taught me and our family. It was defintely an emotional process being interviewed, sharing your darkest hours with a stranger. But someone once told me that part of the grieiving process is to tell your story at least 100 times...well take that times 10 or more. So in a way this article was a blessing.

I am always proud and lucky to be Lola's mom. I will cherish the time we did have together and the opportuntiy to kiss her sweet forehead and tell her I love her. Face to face.


Life goes on...that is the hard part.

But we never forget.....so yes pennies from heaven are smiles from angels.
Especially the cute little angel with the flowered hat!!!

Friday, December 16, 2011

28 Months

It is almost Christmas...the tree is up. 42 glorious angels hang on our tree. The white lights sparkle in the night. The hints of gold shimmer and radiate during the day. It is a beautiful tree, Lola would love it.I look forward to new additions this year. Those are my favorite gifts, as well as Lola's!

Our nightly prayers and hellos to Lola are such an important part of my life and daily routine. It is that moment, that I truly believe we share together, every 365 days of the year. I will never forget.

The next couple months are going to be very exciting for us...Lola's story will be shared with thousands!!! I look forward to sharing more about our process, healing in a way. The final product I hope to be amazing.

Everytime a bell rings an angel gets their wings.....think of Lola the next time you hear one this Christmas season.

Love.

Lola's Mom

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

27 months

It is hard to believe the holiday season is upon us already...hard to believe it is 27 months for Lola. The holidays aren't quite how they used to be. There still is the spirit of Christmas, but it is a time also where we miss even more the ones we love that are in heaven. Though I constantly have to remind myself that Lola is with us, just not the way we want her to be. That is the hardest part about this otherwise joyous season.

I look forward to putting up our angel tree. I love hearing the Christmas carols with the word angels in it. I enjoy seeing angels in store displays.
It will be fun to find our special angel ornament for 2011, I already have my eye on one!!!

We miss Lola so much....we pray for her everynight and extra special prayers always on the 16th. I always ask God to give her extra hugs on this day.

Much Love.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

26 Months

Yesterday was International Wave of Light Ceremony, hard to believe this was the third time we participated in this candle lighting for Lola. When we lit our candle I thought how amazing it was that for 24 hours, around the world candles were lit for our angels. The magic in candle is captivating. It is light in the darkness. A warmness in it's glow. I think angels have a light about them....

Whenever I look at Lola's picture I see so much beauty, peacefullness and that glow about her picture. She is simply gorgeous. She is a wonderful guardian angel to our whole family, especially little Milo. Sometimes I think Milo's joyfullness comes from Lola, one thing she sure has taught him is to love life. That is what she taught me...no matter what storms that come our way, live in the moment, treasure it always.

Happy to report Lola's pink rose bush is doing well. We were even able to cut some roses and place them by her picture last week. Warms my heart.

26 months later, Lola is with us everyday....light of our life.